From her to him by inner nympho

I want you
I want you to say my name
I want you to kiss my lips
I want you to take my clothes off
I want you to suck on my nipples and tell me how wonderful my breasts are
I want you to trail your tongue down my belly and get to my little mound of flesh
I want you to put your mouth on my second lips and kiss it as I moan your name
I want you to take your shirt off and let me kiss your chest and shoulders
I want you to take your pants off and lay down on my bed
I want you to say “come get this dick”
I want you to moan as I suck on you
I want you to watch me swallow
I want you to pull my hair and spank my ass while you take me from behind
I want you to talk dirty to me as you fuck me
I want you to cum on my tits and watch me massage it into my skin
I want you to lie on the bed with me after all is and said done; fall asleep in my arms
There is no reason not to cook up a continuous carnal flesh feast
I know you have tasted the warmth between a woman’s thighs but have you ever tasted mine?
Our mental foreplay has gone on for far too long
There is no need to deprive the soul of what it has been brought in this world to enjoy
We need the magic of the night to whisper sweet incantations and put us under the spell of lust
And at the time of meeting, there is no place I’d rather be
I want to feel you with me and in me
I want you

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cinderella bout to lose the glass of her feet...

Cinderella bout to lose the glass of her feet...
almost midnight...
u know you gotta run back home like the fairy godmother said
but yet you wait...
you wait till its almost or already too late...
your 15mins started an hour ago...
what am I supposed to do...
this feelings keep going through my head...
and yet i am still with you...
well
Cinderella lost the glass of her feet...
and I just found it...

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Black Roses

A mutual understanding...

So yummy good n spicy...

Weeks passed, months

Things still  cool.

then the arguments, the quarrels, the mistakes 

I keep coming back to apologize even though I KNOW u are the one at fault.

but the same arguments quarrels n mistakes...

well this is my own side of the story

This cycle cant keep happening. 

u say I try to change you... i try to control you...

if i see u playing with a knife n i tell u to drop it. 

is that bad?

I have tried...

Tonight,

I give unto thee Black Roses...

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The missing part.

I have got a hole in my heart, lost to the world... 

the missing part is you...

moving around everyday wishing and hoping my heart be healed...

wishing the missing part will surface and my heart shall be whole again...

but...

its been to damn long...

finally, i realize that i have lived without and i am still alive...

I shall remain this way... i guess you make another persons heart whole. 

they say if you really like someone,you let 'em go, and if he/she is meant for you. 

he/she ll be back.

but till you come back...

just know i stay incomplete...

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Perfect

 We always want the best of the best...

 We always expect more from our "partner"

 but we never really look at ourselves.

 the normal excuse we give is " I can not settle for less"

 you can not request a 10, if you are not a 10 yourself

 you can only hope, do not demand a 10 if you are a 6.

 because the so called 10 wants a 10 as well.

Most girls want tall, muscular men, most guys want properly shaped, hot lil things {grrrr} and then forget about personality, character, things that really matter, I try to explain to people that it is not just all about the abs, boobs, ass it's more than that.

What about the others that are not physically endowed? Are they not entitled to love?

KOMMYTILA HAS SPOKEN AGAIN.

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I HIGHLIGHTED THE ONES I BELIEVE TO BE IMPORTANT

THIS IS NOT ABOUT BEING HEARTLESS OR ANYTHING. ITS SIMPLE LOGIC… GIRLS EXPECT SO MUCH FROM BOIS. WITHOUT EVEN THINKING ABOUT WHAT BOYS WANT/THINK… found this list… and felt n feel girls should read and change where changes need 2 b made…

1. Sometimes we just don’t want to talk. Don’t take it personally.
2. We notice other women because we are men and we are alive. This does not mean we’re planning to dump you and jump them.
3. Our favorite T-shirts are not “disgraceful.” They show our loyalty to our college, our favorite sports team, our favorite beer, our favorite vacation or number 23.
4. Helpless is not cute.
5. Get to the point.
6. Understand that men are single-minded and can only do one thing at a time. So don’t talk to us while we’re doing something. We will either ignore you, because we don’t hear you “honestly), or we’ll screw up what we’re doing because you’ve distracted us.
Exception to Rule 6. Interrupt us if something is on fire, if someone needs immediate medical attention, if Pamela Lee is on TV or if there is an emergency that needs a hero.
7. You can’t complain that there are no good guys around while some of us are still single.
8. If you ask us, “Do you think she’s prettier then me?” we just might say, “Yes.” Then what are you going to do?
9. Don’t expect even a great relationship with us to solve all your problems. Just because we love you, doesn’t mean your cellulite, your credit card debt or your bad mood will disappear.
10. We would not wear high heels to impress you.
11. Breathe occasionally so we can get a word in.
12. For us, driving is not just a means of going from point A to point B. It’s an opportunity to control a couple of tons of steel. We drive, therefore, we are.
13. If you want us to notice something, help us out by saying something like, “I went to the beauty shop today.”
14. If you have to have a cat, at least don’t call him “Mister” anything.
15. Hide the self help books when we come over. They make us nervous.
16. We need to vegetate.
17. We don’t go shopping. When we need something, we buy it.
18. We believe our bodily functions are perfectly normal and, at times, quite amusing.
19. We don’t believe you when you say money isn’t important to you.
20. When we see pictures of Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones we feel proud and happy to be men. We don’t care if it’s not fair.
21. It’s not that we don’t want to make you happy, it’s just that sometimes, we don’t know how.
22. Learn to work the toilet seat. If it’s up, put it down.
23. If it itches, it will be scratched.
24. If you ask a question you don’t really want an answer to, expect an answer you didn’t want to hear.
25. Sometimes, we’re not thinking about you. Live with it.
26. Don’t ask us what were thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss topiCs such as navel lint, the shotgun formation and monster trucks.
27. Sundays equals sports. Period.
28. Beer is as exciting for us as handbags are for you.
29. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.
30. You have enough clothes.
31. You have too many shoes.
32. Crying is blackmail.
33. Your ex-boyfriend is an idiot.
34. Ask for what you want. Let’s be clear on this one: Subtle hints don’t work. Strong hints don’t work. Really obvious hints don’t work. Just say it!
35. No, we don’t know what day it is. We never will. Mark anniversaries on a calendar you know we check.
36. We’re not mind readers and we never will be. OUr lack of mind-reading ability is not proof of how little we care about you.
37. Most guys own three pairs of shoes. What makes you think we’d be any good at choosing which pair - out of 30 - would look good with your dress?
38. Yes and no are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
39. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
40. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
41. Check your oil.
42. Don’t fake it. We’d rather be ineffective than deceived.
43. It is neither in your best interest or ours to take any quiz together.
44. It doesn’t matter which quiz.
45. Anything we said six months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after seven days.
46. If you won’t dress like the Victoria Secret girls, don’t expect us to act like the soap opera guys.
47. If something we said could be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
48. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both.
49. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
50. Christopher Columbus didn’t need directions, and neither do we.
51. If you wear a Wonderbra and a low-cut blouse, you lose the right to complain about having your boobs stared at.
52. Our relationship is never going to be like it was the first two months we were going out.
53. Men see a limited number of colors, like Windows default settings. Peach is a fruit, not a color.
54. Ditto melon.
55. If we ask what’s wrong and you say “nothing,” we will act like nothing is wrong.

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GUYS SUCK...

K SO WATS POPPING MY PPL. U MIGHT HAVE NOT NOTICED BUT IVE PAST MY 50 POSTS MARK... HAPPY TO SAY I DID IT IN A REALLY SHORT TIME STARTED BLOGGING IN JUNE AND IN NOVERMBER 50 POST ALREADY...


ANYWAYS... THE D MAIN D MAIN. GUYS SUCK...

seriously that is old news i rili am tired of hearing this gist... there are plenty solutions to this situation...

the first one is very very simple... "why fall in luff wiv bad bois in the first place when there are so many gud bois out there... who are just shy n scared of being rejected by you. the probably would treat u better than the low lives that u claim to like, the ones that "break you heart" but no its the happening guys youll be running for. hiss #abegfreethatissue

the second one... know who u are falling in luff wiv first... dont rush into anything examine the dude properly dont just open leg because u think it ll help in making him like u... most times it doesnt... chill small talk to the fella before jumping only if u want to be burnt if thats the case #abegdecompose hiss...

the third one... if d guy wants to play u too play and dont get emotionally attached i know u may say its not possible it is... very very... make sure u have things dat disgust u about the person in ur mind when u think ur getting there.. and before u get there end it sharp sharp if errthing about the dude invites u and u know he is a bad sumbody. jump off the bridge asap dont start anything...

the fourth option... be a lessy... finish. leave bois alone... finito...

please stop saying guys suck its annoying cuz me 2 I am a guy and i know i dont suck... if boys suck then girls are dumb... finito.

KOMMYTILA HAS SPOKEN... I DONT CARE IF I SHELLED ENGLISH ISNT MY PORTION ITS TORTURE AS AM WRITING IT SEF...

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I LUST AFTER YOU,WILL YOU KICK IT WIV ME THO!

K so kommytila travelled this weekend for a (family friends) graduation u feel me... like a 7hr journey... ROAD TRIP... BUYAKASHA.. BRAP BRAP BRAP KPO KPO KPISHUN KPISHUN GBOSA! yh so I had minor fun as ottawa was boring this weekend but am heading back on wednesday got a visa interview y'all wish me luck.

anyways on my way to ottawa while driving i was thinking... most of d ppl i have dated/been with i never really loved them like that it was more of a sensual sturvinz
(yoruba accent) u feel me... some lust sturvz

anyways so to the main d main of this post...

its really just a question to girls. would yall prefer us telling u d truth, u know tell we seriously and deeply in lo- sorry LUST wiv u... we are crazily attracted to u and thats it.  not sure i passed the question out right but pls ppl get at me...

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I AM 19

okay also in this ottawa trip...

I hate it wen i am been remindig of my age iin a bad way... say during dinner a botle of wine is on the table so i can drink n eat right and then a random someone makes a side comot like "arent the people on "my" table underage"  you get what i mean right.

i know I am a young dude. i tell err1 when i meet them... its not a bigger I am  just 19.

plus i may be just 19. but am sure i have done things in this life most people older havent done or tried doing... this post well was written wiv anger. i really wish u ppl can feel how hard am tapping my keys..

me being just 19 dont mean errthing bout me is just 19. i mean i am not 19 downstairs i can assure you of that. my brain aint 19 eida.  i ve got plans for days. i mean I am kommy konfirmed obasa... but anyways still

P.S.  to the older girls dont try n front if u want to get it... get at me on twitter(konfirmed) facebook(kommy konfirmed obasa) email kanmi@konfirmed.com

Kommytila... signs out. plus sorry forgot to tell y'all I just added a new thing to d konfirmed website. y;all  should check it out if u have any questions or suggestions pictures anything u think can be put there lemme know.

kommytila is a young man with a bright future better get at him now... hiss

for my twitterians #imagine say i dey share $100 for everyone who leaves a comment... lol #WhereDeyDoDatat?

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My Addiction

k i never knew i was addicted to u.

I knew i couldnt do without u the day i left the shower still dripping wet just to be wiv you for just 7secs

i never new you ll feel so so good.

u know everything about me...

i am with you and you are wiv me always.

we cant be without each anoda

with you there is never a dulling time...

Since we met i have not lived a day wivout u wiv u. wiv u flowing  thru my veins

the process is so so wonderful... like so many things are invovled...

my brain- my nerves- my fingers- U- bk to my brain and the process starts again.

i dont give a dam! if i chatted shit in this post. but TWITTER. O TWITTER. is there a day i would live wivout u...

I am in the student center because of u twitter... no internet in my house.

facebook = wack,  hi5= crap, all of them worthless... o twitter dont you ever leave me... sniff sniff..

twitter u are my bestfriend. i can tell you anything, ur such a good listener ...

sniff am crying right now... twitter... i love you... hope u love me too... sniff... sniff... buy blogsville... going to tweet

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FIGHTS.

hello people... my last post was half fiction o... same as this one... so pls, ejo, biko, please dont call me and ask if anything is wrong with me ... lol i am fine...

we happy...

we smile...

we play...

we talk...

we do everything together...

then we fight...

we not happy

we dont smile...

we dont play...

we dont talk...

you become irritating...

we make-up

i smile...

u smile...

we laugh...

fun starts...

talk bout fight...

then we fight again...

i dislike you...

u go into your corner...

i smile, but with anger...

i feel like i hate u...

i dont care bout u again...

u come...

i look at you...

cant hold d smile back...

we smile...

we cuddle...

we apologise...

things start over again from the top of this post...

but now... we fight...

and i dont see myself going back to apologise...

or beg...

or make-up

or anything...

u make me unhappy...

i dont give 2 cowdungs bout u...

cos right now u just sum random bicycle story...

dey say fights are supposed to make relationships stronger... but na... i dont think so... some relationships are just destined for destruction...

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GIST+ break up already.

Alright, people...
Hello... Hi... Wassup... Whats popping...

I was talking with a friend of mine recently,  she told me to update my blog and she said the comedy part of Kommytila has died and its just emotional rubbish thats left for the readers. I am sorry, I'll try and make me posts as funny as possible from the next post.

Its funny how "gist goes round" a couple of days back a.k.a 2 days ago, I heard gist about myself that I didn't know about, it was funny and false but I liked the fact that people enjoyed talking about me, The gist made me look like a bad boy,  I heard some girls like that... GIGITY!
Biko, please oh I am not bad and Je not so good as well, but I can assure thee that I am closer to the good side than most males you'll ever know.

K... now to the break up already part of this post. I've been wanting to talk about this issue for a long time,  I am tired of people/couples telling me about their "personal business" about them being tired and things are not working out, my one advice = do you see yourself getting married to who you are with, if not end it.  plus Before you become parents, do not put your wahala on your child(ren)'s head(s). Break up already...

I was talking to a man a week back during my vacation... Kommytila went to London to chill 4 a bit. and his married friend told me he does not want to talk to his wife because when they talk she makes him unhappy and the wife told me later on that she is in the marriage only for her kids, and out of the 25years of marriage she only enjoyed 5 years. My advice to him was simple, just do not forget to pay the children school fees plus their pocket money as of when due.

If your relationship is a burden, drop it and do not stress other peoples lives.

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Runsing State.

alright... Runsing State = period before you get the girl to like you...

at this point u feel like u cant do without the babe. the number on thing on your mind is the babe...

wen ur shitting shez on ur mind

wen ur sleeping ur dreaming bout her

wen ur on the phone u talking to her.

wen your blogging your writing about her...

u feel incomplete without her... rather sad. but very awwwish...

u bois make fun off u.. but all that dont matter... ur female friends ask you why u like her...

why u feel u like her... and all u can say is without her u feel lifeless.

at this point am thinking my topic != post.

but still...

when u cant talk to her, see her... feel her presence u feel like uve been put thru serious torture...

but the question is does this feeling last forever...

does the zeal, the love you have for her continue after you get her to like you and want you as her partner?

do u get tired or bored and u go for the next available girl?

...

or is the feeling just an illusion that dies out in a week?

or she may just be the very one... the one taken out of ur rib... the very one u are supposed to chill wiv... the one supposed to change u, mould you into a better man.

the feeling so so strong...

the feeling very very weird

KOMMYTILA HAS SPOKEN

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REJECTION

I know no one wants to be rejected. but it happens.

even times when you try your best not to be rejected.

rejection really cant be taken in a good way no matter how u try to code it.

and there are different levels ov rejection. but out of all the rejection that me ive gone thru was when i indeed rejected other people for someone but got rejected by the person . e pain me no be small but trust. i no cry... all i said was... ITZ COOL...

now the main question is...

what to do after being rejected?

• cry and cry?
• Stay sad for a long time?
• feel sad then move on?
• or stick to the person till d lady/fella changes her/his mind from pity

Honestly I know not what the best response is... before i know I would have said move on one time. but i have gotten rejected once, twice... even more ...

but the most important thing is things happen for their own particular reasons...

ehm ppl tell me what u did after u know... or if uve never ever been rejected... or what u feel should be done after this.

rejection... not sexy KOMMYTILLA HAS SPOKEN

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Sex and Emotions

MAJOR ADVICE FROM KOMMYTILA

THIS ONE IS FOR THE GIRLS SINCE IVE BEEN ON THE BOIS SIDE SINCE...

like we all know sex can lead someone to feel that they are in love, or it can make the feelings of love stronger... but people should be sure a relationship is lasting before going ahead to do it. before you do sef you should be sure that you can handle the emotions of sex and the responsibilities of sex before you do. "IT" can be a wonderful thing; but there is no rush.

"IT" may mean different things to people. Some PEOPLE feel its just to release stress hmmm... ahhh!. I noticed, well have come to believe that sex isnt the same for guys as it is for gals, for gals its on another emotional level unless they just in the zones too.  If you go and do  someone that isnt on ur level of emotionality(if dat word exists), it may lead to many issues serious ones. 

I keep tellin my bois that Sex is more than just a good lay(am posh) cos when a gal decides to have sex, she is not just agreeing to the act itself, at that moment in her mind she is basically giving her body to the guy. Giving your body is not a joke it involves an enormous (for does dat dont understand enormous =big) amount of trust. 

FORGET THE FACT THAT AM THE ONE GIVING THE SPEECH BUT SERS THINK PPL.(BOIS)

 A lady should feel that the guy respects her and will treat her with kindness, understanding, caring and all those romantic story book sturvinz. see i feel most girls dey always fear cos after you do ... u go just comot run and the after-effect like why did i just do wat i did.. and u bois sef after u do shut up dont spread d gist. d gals self esteem is on d line...  not sure u ppl understand. but WHEN IT COMES TO SEX. PLS DONT RUSH GIRLS  haba HISS STUPID BOIS ... 

YUP KOMMYTILA HAS SPOKEN  TO ALL THE GIRLS THAT LIKE THIS POST

add me on facebook Kommy Konfirmed Obasa. msn kanmiobasa@hotmail.com

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SIGNS

third blog

ok. 

so on my second blog i spoke about the feminine mind and got several personal messages talking bout things that are off point

so on this blog i wont talk about matters of love, politics, religion. but about something we all can relate to something like... top 25 songs played on my itunes, or the reason why the sky is blue...

ta! i shall continue. 

so on this blog i talk about "the signs girls give" and "how bois act to signs"

see some boys dont understand most of the signs you ppl say you give.

you'll do something and when we dont respond well you'll be crying dat we dont understand.

all the random signs u ppl have we bois dont know... u ppls mind too complex for us to understand so... u get me...

signs like:-

                   laughing at my jokes----it'll make us think we funny.

                   telling us u like our eyes--- means u like our eyes.

                   telling us ...

come on speak simple english... I LIKE YOU... I DONT LIKE THAT SHIRT... TELL ME I AM BEAUTIFUL.  stop saying things like my sister looks like me. is she beautiful?

and then when we  try to interpret the signs you give..hmmm its anoda wahala...

when a boi calls you at night or whenever and he says come over lets chill. and u say ok... u shud know dat the chilling is on a diff level. dont be ignorant and  go... chai! mehn i dont even know what else to say...

girls shud speak english... bois too... KOMMYTILA HAS SPOKEN

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FEMININE MIND.

'til tomorrow i know i wont be able to comprehend this topic. but what i have come to understand is the the feminine mind isnt that complicated...

 NOW THIS IS MY OPINION...

I feel girls think to much. i feel they make things bigger than they really are. if u tell a normal guy 'a'. he accepts it as 'a', but when you tell a babe the same thing in her mind this is what she feels...  ("hmm what comes before 'a' is it 'b', no its not but 'a' na where alphabet start, not okay i choose 'z' and well 'b' comes after 'a' so its 'z' 'a' 'b' "). something so unnecessary. i feel they make life more complicated for themselves. if you introduce a guy to anoda guy. they' ll shake as if they have been friends for eternity but... when you introduce a babe to another girl. in their minds they start to abuse and find fault in the other girl. but for what reason. me i dont know. another example which me i know very very well of. lets say u introduce you girlfriend to your ex. (den den den den) problem your ex will start in her mind oh. she may even bring it out ... am about to reveal the "ex's" thought process (hmmm.. what does this girl have that me i dont have. look at her am finer than her. see her cheap weave... see her ive got more body than she does. why would he leave me for that)  ..

seriously why do girls do all this things.

even my baby sister... one day she walk into the sitting room back in 9ja my friends n i were they and i saw her trying to adjust her skirt am like see this one thinking  boys dat are double your age will be looking at u.

then the theories girls have on guys and dating... WOW is all i can say.

some will be doing bad guy (by the way not referring to any1 in particular) in their mind they feel if they dont show d guy how much they like him, he wont take her for granted. as in wow...lol most times if you ppl dont know you are literally pushing the boy away. kai! 

BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY I MAY BE WRONG...  KOMMYTILA HAS SPOKEN

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"MY TYPE"

K. so amma talk from ma own point of view. 

Ive gone thru so many relationships and this has left me with the question if "I" do have a type. I have dated slim, average, fat, tall, short, fine, ugly, flat, curved, proud, opposite of proud(lol) older and younger ladies. and yet am still left with the question of what my type is. 

I wonder how people already have an idea of their "type" . Are they saying that if sumone who isnt their type comes along they wont shake body small.  I feel there is no such thing as "my type" because I  dated a girl who would never date a guy who is  shorter and younger than her. but well hmmm... seems she broke her vows on her "type". so people can we actually say  we do have a type. seriously think with me. look back on ur past relationships the guys/gals do they have any thing in common.and if they do how many things. most people would come out and say. I WANT TALL BOI, I WANT BIG BOBBIE, I WANT FINE BOI, I WANT BIG YANSH. but what if they ones who dont have the things u want are the ones you are supposed to chill wiv. am not sure if u ppl understand the lyrics am typing but seriously. haba. give a sister a chance... give a brother a chance. am speaking on behalf of us dat dont hav things the ppl we seem to like request. haba. u want us to do surgery abi u want us to lie about our age.

seriously lets all open our eyes. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TYPE. if i hear anygirl talk bout type i will spank you and if a boy that is bigger than me talk bout type. hmmm hmmm ive warned u oh. 

To all the girls that said I am short, young(BLE BLE)... hmmm u dont know wat u missed... KOMMITILA has spoken. TYPE DOESNT EXIST.

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