Tuesday, August 18, 2009

REJECTION

I know no one wants to be rejected. but it happens.
even times when you try your best not to be rejected.

rejection really cant be taken in a good way no matter how u try to code it.

and there are different levels ov rejection. but out of all the rejection that me ive gone thru was when i indeed rejected other people for someone but got rejected by the person . e pain me no be small but trust. i no cry... all i said was... ITZ COOL...

now the main question is...

what to do after being rejected?
  • cry and cry?
  • Stay sad for a long time?
  • feel sad then move on?
  • or stick to the person till d lady/fella changes her/his mind from pity
Honestly I know not what the best response is... before i know I would have said move on one time. but i have gotten rejected once, twice... even more ...

but the most important thing is things happen for their own particular reasons...

ehm ppl tell me what u did after u know... or if uve never ever been rejected... or what u feel should be done after this.

rejection... not sexy KOMMYTILLA HAS SPOKEN

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11 comments:

  1. Well, i think if u av been rejected, ol u av 2 do is jst move on, as they say"if they are meant for u they ll come back one way or another"

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  2. well...i think you just move on and if you didnt do anything to deserve it then karmas a bitch...the person who rejected you will surely get it hot.
    nice song.

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  3. u up put this song on ur last post right?
    Yea, i did hear it!
    still deciding on it. But i like the way it started and the beats... it might grow on me :)
    Okay as for rejection.
    Any rejection at all, whether na guy,promotion,application wetin, once i am rejected, i CRY! period. not in front of people thou. then the moaning around for 2 days max starts. i mean rnt i good enuf. then i move on, psyching myselfing that there are greener better pastures out there and "the person" just lost out on something good!
    there....
    My two cents!
    P.S. they shld try a remix to this song with more lyrics. just suggesting. what do i knw?
    I'm out :-D

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  4. You have to move on and sometimes you know this things makes you stronger and wiser or like my broda will say, make you develop thick skin..

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  5. I like the way the song started...dnt kw if i lyk d song yet.
    I think u just get your shit together and move one.

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  6. hmm...depending on the situation surrounding the cause of rejection but anytime i get rejected here's what I do...

    -i say thanks

    -walk away

    -keep to myself and replay the whole event in my head including the coversations that ensued

    -sometimes i realise that if i had given the same answer in a different way, it may have been a different result; i try to find the point of mistake and try not to repeat it

    -i pray

    -i stop keepin to myself and look for someone i can make happy or someone to make me happy

    -i forget about it and move on

    MY BELIEF: IF I DON'T GET IT NOW, IT MEANS GOD'S STILL PREPARING SO THAT I'LL BE ABLE TO HANDLE IT WHEN I GET IT OR THAT'S JUST NOT MEANT FOR ME, SOMETHING BIGGER IS.

    I'll stop talkin but that's a summary...you'll always be fine because what does't kill you only makes you stronger.

    ok...enuff said

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  7. i usually just move one..no point holding on..it only hurts you

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  8. true... moving on seems like the best thing.

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